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Balaji Govindasamy

10 months ago

Pain....:(

The word itself means a lot... It might be physical or Mental pain.. Pain is always hurting... There is no single person who is the reason for this... there are enourmous people who is reason for pain at different times...

Life is all about tackling situations and people at diferent times...

 

1 year ago

Missing someone...:(

Its very hard and difficult have the missing feel through out life... the pain is same how muchever time we cry for the person whom we miss, there wont be any response because ended relationship never does anything for our expectation.. Missing feel never goes out of mind untill these memories remain in our heart and reminds when certain things we come across which was touching moment in Love.. Nothing we can do but let Tears roll down the cheeks... Why life is like this ???? Just leads to frustation cannot be so much practical all the time...

Missing someone who gives unlimited love... and deserves my love the sameway...

Missing badly..

1 year ago

Unbeleivable Changes

Life is totally unbeleivable.. So manythings happens just like that.. Even if we wish that or not, Changes happens.. And we need to adopt to change else it hurts us more than expected.. Life does not gives us expected things all the time it gives only deserving things... So there is nothing permanent.. Eventhough we do not get whatever we wish to get or expect to get and console ourself to become practical the pain of missing sucks...  I do not know the pain of Death, I assume the missing pain equals to death or more than that..

Whatever happens LIFE HAS TO MOVE ON..

1 year ago

Decision - Relationship

Sometimes in life we need to decide whether its right or wrong... Even there is a confusion whether we will miss something or will be better.. Decision is must.. There might be so manythings happening which we cant bear in life but still we hesitate to move on thinking our decision might hurt.. 

Life is like this , something sounds good for somepeople might not sound good for other.. If we can ignore that we can continue in relationship.. Sometimes if we feel the instances cant be beared anymore just come out of the relationship with no second thought... The thought of bearing and forgiving always stay and it spoils the moments in relationship... Hatred grows.. followed by all bad thoughts unbearable..  Relationship dont last untill anyone in that sacrifice for other...If the personal happiness hurts others & still it continues..

END OF RELATIONSHIP..

TRUST IS DEAD.. FINISH

 

 

1 year ago

Manimegalai

I was tired of shopping and i cannot able to think of travelling long way to bangalore..So i thought of going nextday morning since my shift starts by 3.30PM..I booked ticket in hindustan travels on 13th July 15 morning 7.30am... I packed breakfast which my aunt prepared day before only.. i was thinking how to have my breakfast if it stopped in some restraurant since outside food will not be allowed...Bus stopped in some restraurant after 1 hour of travel.. I was so much shy to take my food to eat..Then I saw some table outside one tea shop and kept my food in table and went to take tea so that I can have with food... I met a lady who doing the same thing what i was doing,,,, I was about to take my food and thinking to move to other table.. then asked her can i sit there... she said okay... then when i was talking to her & I was thinking she might be some 2 or 3 years experienced.. and she got some call and i understood she was married and got kid.. she was telling someone about be strict to kid I dont mind he want to be perfect like that... I mixed curd with thaval nippatti:):) which was good to eat..then when i was about to take tea i said i work for accenture and she started saying i tried to join accenture but they offered less and she work for some smaller concern which pays upto 10Lakhs... she said she was 4 years experienced in banking domain and i asked her whether she is love marriage.. she said she got married in young age when she was studying twelvth and also said her husband is not with her.. she have 2 kids.. boy is studying 9th std and girl studying 7th std...I was amazed and told really its a great thing that u work with confidence and i know girls who dont go for job even they are qualified... i am really surprised...

Just a Flash of smile came in her face and vanished...

Bus started.. i dd not talk to her later but felt proud about her.. There are Womens who lead life without dependency...

 

 

 

 

 

1 year ago

Tree Plantation - Nostalgic

It was 29th June 2013 the day which has brought lot of changes in my life... where I met two girls who later became so close in my life.. One girl who attracted me so much by her looks and simple attitude and one more girl who was notoriously talking and making the environment lively...  I was so happy that day i planted saplings as a part of Corporate Social Responsibility event Accenture-Bangalore..The Event was so close to heart which makes nostolgic memories which added friends to my list...  Its been two years now still the memories remain fresh about the first event... I took pics of us with the saplings with the phone which was serving its last few days still the pics are perfect which holds those memories... I took id of one of girls to share the pics... I took number from official webmail which was turning point in my life...

I sent message Hi...

And the reply was

Hi Balaji...

Change BEGAN...

 

1 year ago

Life is incredible

I think about past where i did not have money but happiness was there..Time grew Fast and money came slowly happiness reduced.. Speaking which was very vital part in life and also changes life most of the time... How much i spoke...how much effective few conversation were and how much i lost due to speechlessness.. How much i lost due to speaking secrets...painful Life bec of secret revealed.. Still life moves on... Incredible